10 Steps to a Green Wedding 
NEW: Read our interviews with green wedding planners in San Francisco and Boise and meet a real-life couple that got married in a climate-neutral ceremony.Every engaged couple wants their wedding day to be a special celebration that reflects who they are and what they care about. Going green is a great way to make the festivities unique and meaningful--and show friends and family just how fun, beautiful, and delicious a sustainable lifestyle can be. Here's how to start planning the kind of wedding the online nuptial gurus at TheKnot.com have anointed "the hot new thing":
1. With this ring...
A green wedding begins where any engagement does: with a ring. Don't start off on a sour note. The beautiful alternatives to "blood diamonds" (those that are mined in war zones and fund conflicts) include:
- vintage rings, whether a family heirloom or an antique find (you can even have old gold melted down and refashioned)
- lab-created diamonds (greenKarat's are set in recycled gold too)
- diamonds mined in peaceful Canada or Australia, like those from Brilliant Earth, Cred Jewellery, or Leber Jewelry's Earthwise line
- diamonds certified as "conflict-free" under the Kimberley Process, an ongoing effort to reform diamond mining in Africa (ask your jeweler the questions in Amnesty International's buyer's guide)
- one-of-a-kind wooden bands
2. Location, location, location
Your choice of venue sets the tone for your wedding day--and accounts for a big chunk of the money you'll be laying out. Spend it wisely! Consider:
- choosing a setting that's convenient to the most guests to minimize travel impacts
- having the ceremony and the reception at the same place, or providing ecofriendly transportation between them
- picking a unique local spot--like an art gallery, nonprofit space, organic restaurant or farm, green hotel, botanical garden, or green-roofed building--that supports a cause you believe in
- an outdoor setting that will infuse the whole event with a natural sensibility (and require less decorating too!)
- arriving at the ceremony in a horse-drawn carriage, cycle rickshaw, or hybrid car
- offsetting your guests' travel (or asking them to do it as your wedding gift)
3. Please join us...
Your invitation is the first impression guests will get of your green wedding. Look for:
- recycled, handmade, or plantable papers processed chlorine-free and printed with vegetable- or soy-based inks
- tree-free paper made out of hemp, banana stalks, bamboo, kenaf, or organic cotton
- a printer who will use paper with a high percentage of post-consumer recycled content
- papers that aren't metallic or plastic-coated, characteristics that make them hard to recycle
- opportunities to reduce paper use, like sending a postcard (instead of multi-enveloped notes) for your save-the-date, or using online invitations and a wedding blog to let people know about the bachelor/ette parties, rehearsal dinner, and gift registry
In your invitations, let guests know about the ecofriendly hotel and transportation options in your area, whether it's hybrid rental cars or directions to the ceremony on public transportation. And don't forget to pick up some extra green paper products for your guest book, place cards, and thank-you notes. (You will be writing thank-yous, won't you?)
4. The final fling
Plan bachelor and bachelorette parties that will keep the green theme going:
- Stay local (and spend more time with your friends, and less dealing with travel stress).
- Offset your trip if you choose a "destination" party.
- Travel by train (and start the party early in the bar car).
- Indulge in organic wine (or beer) tasting or an organic spa treatment.
- Take a class and learn to make your own wedding flowers or jewelry.
- Do something low-impact and outdoorsy like a camping, surfing, sailing, kayaking, or fishing trip.
5. Here comes the bride...
...in a gorgeous hemp-silk gown. When it comes to outfitting the bridal party, green options abound. You can:
- go vintage (and update your look as necessary with tailoring and modern shoes and accessories)
- pick clothes made from hemp, bamboo, and organic cotton or silk--or find a dressmaker who will make a one-of-a-kind item out of these sustainable fabrics (men's suits and shirts come in organic cotton or wool too)
- borrow an elegant gown from a stylish friend
- buy something you'll wear again (and let your bridesmaids do the same)
- accessorize with a unique recycled purse and/or jewelry
- use vegetable dyes on your shoes (or go barefoot for a beach wedding)
- accentuate natural beauty with all-natural makeup
- donate the dresses to charity after the event
6. Set the stage
Add beauty and style to your wedding décor, naturally. Here's how:
- opt for organic flowers
- find a florist who's diligent about recycling packaging and will source locally raised flowers
- have bridesmaids carry matching purses or silk bouquets instead of cut flowers
- decorate with branches, dried grasses, grains, greens, berries, or live plants (potted or dried arrangements can double as favors)
- choose beeswax or soy-based candles over those made with paraffin, a petroleum byproduct
- arrange to have decorations moved from the ceremony to the reception (if you opt for separate sites)
- use leaves or other natural objects as place cards
- throw biodegradable confetti or organic rose petals instead of releasing butterflies
- donate the flowers to a hospital or rest home at the end of the day
7. Eat, drink, and be merry
Showcase green gustatory pleasures (and spoil your guests) by basing your menu around local, organic, and seasonal foods. Don’t forget the organic wine, beer, and spirits, and the free-trade, shade-grown coffee and tea! Some tips:
- Ask the venue's preferred caterers and bakers if they can do your event organically.
- Find a local organic restaurant that does off-site catering.
- If your wedding won't be complete without a specific type of food, get married when it's in season.
- Find a caterer you trust to pick the best seasonal selections (since you may not be able to taste those exact items ahead of time).
- Consider vegetarian selections and seek out cruelty-free meats and wild, rather than farmed, fish.
- Make sure the venue offers comprehensive recycling facilities, and ideally composting too.
- Have your cake decorated with organically grown flowers or other natural materials instead of plastic toppers.
- Rent real glassware, dishware, and linens instead of using disposables.
- Go for a chic eclectic look by mixing and matching thrift-store plates and dishes (and donating them back when you're done).
- Use biodegradable utensils and dishes made out of cornstarch, potatoes, wheat, or sugar cane--if your venue can compost them.
- Make arrangements to donate leftover food to a local food bank or homeless shelter.
8. Lasting memories
Whether you prefer film or digital photographs, look for a photographer who will do digital proofs to save paper and chemicals. Avoid single-use cameras, but ask friends with digi-cams to share their photos with all the guests online in a free Flickr group or Snapfish group room you set up for your wedding.
9. 'Tis better to give...
OK, OK, giving and receiving are both great! For your gift registry, consider:
- asking for gifts to charity instead of material goods
- registering with the I Do Foundation or another site that gives a percentage of gift purchases to your chosen cause
- registering with stores that offer local, fair-trade, handmade, organic, or other ecofriendly products like Branch, Gaiam, Greenfeet, GreenSage, Ten Thousand Villages, UncommonGoods, or VivaTerra.
- registering for outdoor gear or contributions to an ecofriendly honeymoon
- creating a custom wish list of ecofriendly items like a fresh-produce subscription from a local farm, organic gardening supplies, organic linens, park and museum passes, gift certificates to organic restaurants, and subscriptions to green publications or memberships in green causes
For your favors, give something your guests will really use and enjoy, not disposable plastic souvenirs. Some ideas:
- gourmet organic chocolates or another organic or local food item
- attractive bags of fresh or dried organic herbs
- seeds in a commemorative container
- reusable cloth tote bags
- a small plant
- natural soaps
- soy or beeswax candles
- a compact fluorescent lightbulb
- a downloadable playlist of your favorite songs
- a small charitable donation in each guest's name
- place cards made of seeded paper that can be planted at home
For your helpful, loyal attendants, you'll want to up the ante a little, perhaps with:
- gift baskets of organic skin-care products
- recycled jewelry, wallets, handbags, or drinking glasses
- selections of organic coffees, teas, and chocolates
- recycled paper journals and stationery
- great bottles of organic wine
10. Happily ever after...
Begin your new life with a honeymoon that's light on the Earth. Consider:
- going somewhere local (you're going to be spending a lot of time in that hotel room anyway)
- engaging in ecotourism, which can be as rugged or luxurious as you want it to be (find listings that suit your style through Conservation International, National Geographic, Planeta.com, or ResponsibleTravel.com)
- taking a trip that benefits an environmental group; perhaps boating in Florida's Dry Tortugas, birding in Alaska, or walking the Italian Alps with Sierra Club Outings
- skipping the cruise and taking a relaxing, romantic train trip
- getting around at your destination by renting bikes or taking public transportation (the better to enjoy the sights instead of arguing about your spouse's driving habits)
- staying in a family-run B&B or inn, a luxury teepee or yurt, or a green hotel that's working to save resources and reduce waste
- offsetting your trip’s carbon dioxide emissions
Watch for a segment on green weddings on "Good Morning America" on Monday, April 2!







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Posted by: Markomarko | March 30, 2007 at 06:04 AM
Another option is to set up a personal fundraising page with Firstgiving.com to donate to a charity in place of asking for wedding gifts. One of the best things about Firstgiving is that they send all funds raised directly to the non-profit so the newlyweds don't have to worry about how the money is getting there. It's a great way for the couple to pass on their happiness to a worthy charity!
Posted by: Brittany | March 30, 2007 at 07:47 AM
You can also try to use online RSVP through a wedding website to save on response cards. Donate your flowers to a convalecent home and donate left over food to a homeless shelter. Also, checkout the "I do" Foundation. Most bridal registries will donate a percentage of the amount spent on your bridal registry to the charity of your choice...no expense to you!
Rhonda
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Posted by: Rhonda | April 01, 2007 at 08:56 PM
Remember people,
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Check it out.
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ListedGreen
Posted by: David Syring | April 02, 2007 at 12:08 PM
If you are looking for truly one-of-a-kind artist creations that are necessary for many wedding needs... made from recycled materials, check out www.etsy.com
You can find organic bath and beauty products, recycled jewelry, wallets, purses, magnets, vases... etc.
I love buying from the artists there because I know my $ is going directly towards another artist's dream!
Posted by: Laura | April 02, 2007 at 01:13 PM
My wife and I exchanged simple gold bands found on Devon street in Chicago, got married in a civil ceremony and invited the world over to our apartment.
Then, we told them we got married. No diamonds, not useless garbage presents. Just fun and friends. These wedding trappings concocted by DeBeers et. al. are easy to avoid.
Posted by: Dave | April 03, 2007 at 10:40 AM
Very usefull tips!
I and my husband Pavel provides "green" photo and video services in Israel and worldwide for last 4 years.
No printed proofs - DVD and CD with the materials, edited movies and personal designed, hand bounded The Wedding Book (the examples are in my web http://www.tinok.tk ).
Have a wonderfull day!!!
Posted by: Ola | April 24, 2007 at 10:26 PM
Not to sound like a "downer" or anything, but I would suggest people consider one of the lowest impact weddings ever: 3 minutes at your local Justice of the Peace or other such official, with local friends and family in attendance. Film it and stick it up on YouTube if other people might want to see it, too.
Just a thought. :)
-Jassen
Posted by: Jassen Bowman | May 01, 2007 at 02:37 PM
Diamonds are one thing, but manufacturing as a mainstream jeweler using fair trade and recylced metal poses an entirely different challenge that my company is currently meeting.
We have great wedding rings, too.
Posted by: marc choyt | May 01, 2007 at 02:37 PM
In the above comment, I forgot to mention, check out our website, www.celticjewelry.com
Posted by: marc choyt | May 01, 2007 at 02:39 PM
We had our weding at a local nature preserve. Instead of rice (which bloats the bellies of birds that eat the stuff), we checked with the preserve management and their prairie consultants and ordered quantaties of appropriate prairie grass and wildflower seeds for folks to throw
Posted by: Tom Wilson | May 01, 2007 at 02:44 PM
We are a print/graphics company that does ONLY green printing. Seeded (plantable) papers, handmade chlorine-free, etc with soybean oil based inks, green power etc.
Posted by: Mike | May 01, 2007 at 02:44 PM
Fantastic article. Well researched and well written. I believe you defined every knook and cranny possible in a ec0-wedding.
Posted by: Toni Cervoni | May 01, 2007 at 02:47 PM
Fantastic article. Well researched and well written. I believe you defined every knook and cranny possible in a ec0-wedding.
FYI Somehow my comments were transposed into a guy named MIke above my note.
Posted by: Toni Cervoni | May 01, 2007 at 02:50 PM
The horse drawn carriage is an idiotic idea. It would take more energy to transport the horse to the site than it would to drive there.
Posted by: Will | May 01, 2007 at 03:29 PM
Couples looking for a wedding planner to help them envision and orchestrate their elegantly simple day can check out: www.loveevents.com
Posted by: Jessica Rios | May 01, 2007 at 05:04 PM
I perform Native-American Flute Music and play musical interludes on international ethnic instruments for weddings. I also perform stories from all cultures that represent Ecology, Peace, Healing, + Spirituality.
I have some dates open this summer for performance venues in Northern Calif., Oregon, Washington, Idaho, and western Montana.
Posted by: Tom McCormack | May 01, 2007 at 05:28 PM
As a wedding gift for a friend I purchased $75 worth of wind energy from a wind company that I know is reliable and is building wind turbines locally. This should help offset the damage done with the travel to the wedding and by the electricity used during the wedding.
Posted by: Paul Tick | May 01, 2007 at 06:17 PM
My husband and I had our outdoor Western wedding at the home of a friend in Malibu. Because our friend has horses, we purchased bales of hay from his local feed store and covered them with tablecloths that could be re-used for seating. We not only avoided the waste of renting chairs, we fed his horses for a month. We used only natural lighting, and the floral decor was provided by his garden.
My husband's outfit was pulled together from Old West clothing he already owned, and I made my outfit from cotton denim ornamented with lace recycled from an old wedding gown.
Posted by: Dr. Mary | May 01, 2007 at 06:32 PM
You tree huggers. What planet are you from? I really want my bride dressed in hemp and wearing a wooden wedding ring. Talk about mother earth. And your wedding venues!? Their choices: anywhere but church! And for the honeymoon: why don't we walk from New York to California? That will save energy. And your suggestion of a honeymoon teepee! That really does take the cake, the wedding cake. Hey, I suggest we make it out of bark.
Posted by: Joe | May 01, 2007 at 07:22 PM
Let people know they can tailor this to any large party. We recently gave a "green" bar mitzvah for our son. It was challenging - but we were able to create a party that was fun and eco-friendly.
Posted by: Laura Black | May 01, 2007 at 07:30 PM
I am planning a green wedding and one tip I saw that I'd like to recommend is the custom stamp. It was actually not my idea but turned out to be great. We had postcard invitations on recycled paper, but had a sketch of a man and woman dancing that Ben's late grandfather had drawn made into a stamp with our wedding date written around it. We got rave reviews. The stamps themselves are not especially eco-friendly (because they come on plastic backing) but they make a simple postcard very special, hence eliminating the need for excessive paper usage.
Posted by: Mika Yamamoto | May 01, 2007 at 09:03 PM
I wish I had these tips 3 years ago when I was planning my wedding. Though a few are silly (I agree with Toni about the horse drawn carriage), most of them make sense. We did use the RSVP tracker at www.weddingchannel.com. It worked great and at the same time saved paper and stamps.
Posted by: Diamond | May 01, 2007 at 09:04 PM
Joe, get the hell out of here. Don't ridicule other people's choices, especially when they're responsible choices. This was a fantastic article with so much well researched information, presented comprehensibly, and very, very interesting. I applaud it, and shame on you.
Posted by: Meagan | May 01, 2007 at 09:08 PM
I am planning a wedding for next year and found this article very helpful.
While I too thought Joe's comments rather crude, it is sad to see that there is no mention of a wedding that can be green and still be in a church or other faith setting. A church usually has some type of hall so that the ceremony and reception can be in the same location...but then you probably couldn't have organic beer, wine, etc.
Posted by: Eco Pastor | May 01, 2007 at 09:32 PM
Instead of giving out favors at the reception tables, we put cards at each place indicating that in honor of all of the guests, we had made a donation to Habitat for Humanity in their honor. No fuss other than printing up the cards (on stock from Staples that you can use to print business cards), and many people approved.
Posted by: Laura | May 02, 2007 at 06:12 AM
Great, comprehensive comments and suggestions. My only suggestion is running it again and again, after "wedding" season, and swap in the term "Christmas", "holiday", "funeral", retirement party" -- whatever. We now think like this every day, and share the appropriateness of living lightly.
Posted by: Lisa | May 02, 2007 at 07:02 AM
Hi, I'm currently blogging the planning of my wedding on www.ethicalweddings.com where you will find a directory of eco-friendly wedding suppliers and ideas, and a really good forum where lots of brides-to-be are sharing their green ideas and experiences. There are three other brides like me blogging, and we're all finding it a fascinating new dimension to getting married... there's a lot of interesting things you can do to be green these days!
Posted by: Jen | May 03, 2007 at 12:22 AM
uh, what about buying LESS instead of buying DIFFERENT? Hello, people??? Think about it - if you really want to make a difference.
Posted by: Gail | May 03, 2007 at 08:23 AM
What a fantastic, comprehensive list of wedding ideas! I am so glad I ran across this web article. I am recetly engaged, and I have been putting off the planning process due to the thought of getting trapped in the tradiitonal wedding "must do's" put out there by a lot of media. But after reading this list of ideas, I'm excited to start planning a wedding that can truly be representative of what I believe in!
Posted by: Shannon | May 05, 2007 at 08:47 AM
I love some of those ideas, but reducing is certainly key before reusing and recycling. Hmm, I think that's a post waiting to happen. I have a blog for people who are planning frugal and green weddings: www.commitmentsunlimited.com Check it out if you need advice and support.
Posted by: Sally Parrott Ashbrook | May 16, 2007 at 08:00 PM
Me too ove ideas as long it's good an also help methods that we need.
Posted by: Juno888 | May 17, 2007 at 11:38 PM
We plan it for the planet! I am a Green event planner that serves the Denver/Boulder area. If anyone knows anyone who is getting married in this area and wants a GREEN Event, send them my way!
Thanks,
Daphne Webb
Posted by: Green Event Planner | June 13, 2007 at 11:45 AM
p.s. - Joe you need to open your mind a little bit.
Posted by: Green Event Planner | June 13, 2007 at 11:45 AM
I just came up with an idea for wedding rings which is unique as far as I know. First a little background. When my partner of 25 years asked me to marry him, he asked if I wanted him to buy me an engagement ring. I said, I have a ring. My sweetheart ring transformed into an engagement ring. Later I started wondering what we will do for wedding bands. The shape of my engagement ring is such that it doesn't go with a plain band. It would need a band designed to conform to its shape to work. I was looking at the rings I have, to see if I have anything that would make a good wedding band. Then I got the idea that instead of having a wedding band that I wear all the time, I can have several rings to choose from every day. I will go thru my rings and sort out those A) that are of such a style that they can be used as a wedding band and B) that fit that finger, and then put my wedding band collection, which will probably grow, in a special container just for them.
My fiance is another story. He's not interested in jewelry like I am and thus has almost none. He has his late father's wedding band which is way too big for him. I think it may be too big to get resized. So I'm thinking maybe I should buy him a new band and that will be my wedding present to him.
Posted by: Heidi Johnson | June 13, 2007 at 03:14 PM
P.S. I really appreciate Joe's humor irregardless of whether or not it was intended. : )
Posted by: Heidi Johnson | June 13, 2007 at 04:10 PM
I'd certainly take note of your tips! I am considering of having a garden wedding myself yet don't know what to exactly do. Anyway, I'm thinking of giving out Travel Alarms. I've got a lot of travelers in tow in my wedding.
Posted by: Shawn | June 16, 2007 at 07:05 PM
You can find organic bath and beauty products, recycled jewelry, wallets, purses, magnets, vases... etc.
Posted by: Juno888 | July 05, 2007 at 08:56 PM
Who said the engagement ring had to be a diamond? My husband gave me a non-conflict Brazilian emerald mined near our home in Brazil. It is beautiful! The green color fits perfectly with our green wedding and lifestyle!
P.S. Horses used for horse-drawn carriages can be among some of the most abused horses on the planet. A cruelty-free wedding would involve not subjecting these animals to the harsh conditions which they often go through (i.e. extended periods of time without water and food, extreme heat in the summer, and hundreds of pounds in baggage to cart around). Aside from this one point, I really appreciate the info in the article. Well done.
Unfortunately, there are many ignorant people (like Joe) in this world and thus the need for more green weddings and events is essential!
Posted by: Jessica | July 19, 2007 at 05:05 AM
I have alway s wanted a green wedding and I'll say to the agnet who is planning everything to make it as green as possible.
Posted by: Cara Fletcher | July 27, 2007 at 04:08 AM
Green wedding is what I've always dreamed for.I think I will get it as a wedding gifts from my friends.
Posted by: steven davies | August 10, 2007 at 01:55 AM
There was a segment on The Today Show yesterday about green weddings and the couple featured on the show had Fair Trade Wine at their green wedding. Not many people know about Fair Trade Wine as it's new to the U.S. market, but if you're interested, contact Etica Fair Trade Wine or check out the website.
www.eticafairtrade.com, letecia@eticafairtrade.com
The wines provide a socially responsible option for any event(and taste great as well!)
Posted by: Letecia | September 04, 2007 at 02:22 PM
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution has some great stories about real-life couples going green on their wedding day:
Going green for a wedding
Our love is in bloom, like the flowers we planted for the ceremony. The catered food is locally raised and we hope you can make it—via public transportation.
http://www.accessatlanta.com/hp/content/shared/news/stories/green_wedding_070107.html
Posted by: Green Life Host | October 17, 2007 at 12:06 PM
can i used this information and put it on my blog?? thanks
Posted by: Dubai Wedding | November 07, 2007 at 02:17 AM
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Posted by: Dan Keohane | December 10, 2007 at 01:58 PM
If more people took even a moment to include 1 green element into their wedding planning, we would all be better off. Fantastic article.
Posted by: Wedding Favors | December 11, 2007 at 03:57 AM
Consider setting up an eco-gift registry with earth friendly and local gifts. http://www.registerlocally.com
Posted by: Rachel | December 16, 2007 at 08:23 PM
We are not an energy site but I do make use of wind and solar power on a small scale to help save costs and reduce our footprint, and I would recommend for everyone to look into it and find out how you can help to reduce the effect we are having on this diamond in space we call home.
Posted by: Ellese Chantel bridal and prom wear design specialist | December 17, 2007 at 02:41 AM
Fantastic article for planning a green wedding. We're trying to go more green too with our company and have minimized the amount of packing used to ship each bridal jewelry order. If we all do a little bit, it will add up to a lot!
Posted by: Denise (Bridal Jewelry) Sanger | December 19, 2007 at 04:41 AM
This is a great article about planning a green wedding day.Being Scottish, most everything is a green theme at out traditional weddings.Horse and cart and natural, healthy Scottish fair like rasperry/oatmeal dessert and even the Whisky! The thing to be aware of is the gifts that will be given, having a green concience about this would be the icing on the cake, so to speak.
Posted by: Deekstar wedding servives guy | January 04, 2008 at 09:16 AM
I can't believe I have never given though to green weddings. There is so much waste at these events and so many ways to prevent it. Thanks for this article, I really found it enlightening and would like to use it as an article on a website of mine, with your permission.
Posted by: Anna (my nylons are falling) Gardner | January 15, 2008 at 08:01 PM
I'm hoping "cruelty-free meat" means soy meat or wheat meat because no meat that made of animal flesh is "cruelty-free". It is impossible to get the meat without killing the animal and something as unnecessary as flesh is always cruel. A truly green menu is organic AND vegan!
Posted by: Melissa | January 29, 2008 at 07:01 AM
Great article, with great information. People can make their choices about how far they go on the green scale, but I think even a few small considerations are a step in the right direction!
If you want to "reuse" someone's wedding gown, or "recycle" your own gown please visit my webiste at www.bellancora.com You can save money and wear a gorgeous gown (if you choose the non-hemp route :) Best of luck with your wedding planning!
Posted by: Ingrid | February 12, 2008 at 05:35 PM
If you want to see pictures from the wedding featured in the NY Times article "How Green Was My Wedding" or get free advise on planning your own event see http://realgreenweddings.blogspot.com/. Starting in December 2008 you should also pick up a copy of The Green Bride Guide to help you plan you green day!
Posted by: Thegreenbrideguide | March 03, 2008 at 06:13 PM
Planning a wedding and keeping it under budget is hard work. Not to mention trying to save mother earth in the process. Thanks for all the good tips.
Posted by: Marty | March 07, 2008 at 11:15 AM
For eco-friendly invitations, please check out Twisted Limb Paperworks online at twistedlimbpaper.com. Everything is 100% recyled, handmade, and gorgeous. The company also donates a percentage of profits to land conservation.
Posted by: Nancy | March 28, 2008 at 08:14 AM
What does the rest of the world as consumers and dealers alike think of Canadian diamonds? They are in huge demand in Canada, but what about the rest of the world? Share your thoughts...
Posted by: Gerry Aubin | April 11, 2008 at 08:44 PM
I like the idea of using vintage rings, and another romantic and green ring suggestion is the use of your mother or grand mothers ring.
Posted by: Caskets | April 21, 2008 at 11:50 AM
I think Joe and Will are OK to share their "come on?!" attitudes about the suggestions. I don't think they are close-minded. I think they tap into the fact that we have to think across multiple perspectives of the same issue.
As well researched and comprehensive as the article is, most people still want it to *feel* traditional in a lot of regards. I think that suffocating feeling of sacrifice is what turns a lot of people off from "green".
Vintage rings, non-blood-diamond rings, other gems instead and melting down other gold is all swell, but most people won't be down with wooden rings (I won't). Borrowing a friend's dress isn't going to fly with most brides. And many guests will *not* want to buy a couple energy credits... they'll end up buying some vase or something anyhow...
A balance has to exist between the foresaking of all things traditional and all things super-green. Eco-responsibility can be a part of our normal lives withOUT most people feeling like they've actually sacrificed.
Posted by: Ashley Sue | April 21, 2008 at 12:48 PM
These are some fantastic tips, thanks a bunch for sharing!
Posted by: Royalty Bridal | May 08, 2008 at 05:18 PM
I discovered a jewelry designer i have to share. His name is Todd Reed- he uses recycled gold, recycled rose cut diamonds and also raw diamonds. conflict-free. Breathtaking work! You can have the best of both worlds with his work. I highly recommend him for anyone who wants to go green without losing tradition. Check him out alteredspacegallery.com.
Posted by: Sadie | May 10, 2008 at 02:18 PM
I discovered a jewelry designer i have to share. His name is Todd Reed- he uses recycled gold, recycled rose cut diamonds and also raw diamonds. conflict-free. Breathtaking work! You can have the best of both worlds with his work. I highly recommend him for anyone who wants to go green without losing tradition. Check him out alteredspacegallery.com.
Posted by: Sadie | May 10, 2008 at 02:19 PM